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Back when I was a freshman 4 years ago I wanted nothing to do with Myspace or Facebook. I just thought they were a waste of time and if I wanted to talk to my friends I would just IM them or text them. It just seemed senseless to get a Myspace account. By November that year pretty much everyone I knew had a Myspace page and so I gave in. At first I will say I didn’t like it, though I don’t normally like things when I first tried it. It took about 3 months to like it. Once I liked it though that was it just became a habit when I got up every morning to get on my computer and check my messages and request.

Myspace let me then become friends with others that I would never would have had the chance to become friends with before. Though I do think it comes at a price because most them are far away like on the other side of the county in some cases and I would love to hang out them but I can’t and I know its not impossible but for now it is difficult and there many times in witch it saddens me that I can’t be there for them when maybe they need it. But the good times I feel over come it.

Though then I went to Ustream and there is ware I found my best friend TheVixy and she showed me this new social network called twitter and that was it I never looked back on that and I loved it. I have learned so much about people that I have looked up to now since I was in 5th grade watching Tech TV like Leo Laporte and Chris Pirillo and so much more and I have even gotten to talk to them. These are people that like I said look up to there like heroes like how a normal person might look up to a serten celebrity that's how I looked up to them and to get to talk to them really blow my mind it was amazing.

Now lets bring in Facebook another one ware I tried it and hated it and it took me sometime to like but once I did I saw all the flaws in Myspace and went running for Facebook. I loved the use of fan pages and liking things on there its just so addictive and how I can just plug in other sites to it, it is amazing and I use it more then I ever did Facebook.

How has social media changed my life? Well it has strength existing friendships, it has aloud me to find new friendships and gotten a taste of life in different parts of the country. I feel now more well rounded because of that. It has caused me though some pain that I would not have had if not for social media. For the most part I feel so much better off that I have excepted social media and so much less alone.

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rowdy rob Comment by rowdy rob on July 5, 2009 at 6:04pm
On myspace I have been added as friends to many pro wrestlers myspace accountgs.WWE Divas.
Heck,who would have ever thought a fat old 52 year old fart like me would be aquanted with the likes of Nikki Roxx and Kelly Kelly!!
On Twitter the same thing goes with celebrities,yeah man I have actually heard from some,fereaky man,FREAKY!! What will be next?
Keith Stoneberger Comment by Keith Stoneberger on July 5, 2009 at 11:16am
I wasn't a real Facebook fan until recently and before that, I had a MySpace account and I was on it alot at first but now since I seen how Facebook is, I use that more. The thing I like about Facebook is that the people I have on there now are people I have know throughout my life. I just recently reconnected with my old army buddies, family memebers I haven't seen in a long long while and old school chums.
Mike Copeland Comment by Mike Copeland on July 4, 2009 at 11:24pm
Social media does have its positives, Tom understand that Social Media is the way things are going, yes physical contact is important. The thing is sites like Facebook and MySpace have really made the world smaller, and you can also count YouTube in that. I found my little sister who I haven't seen in years on MySpace.

Michael, good post, I can relate to how social media has changed my life as well.
Tom Comment by Tom on July 4, 2009 at 8:06am
Mike, Get a life. Sure, social networks are a good way to stay in touch with friends, but so is physical contact. Give the computer a break and socialize with real people some. You can get lost in the cyberspace world and lose your ability to interact with real people.

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