So I'm doing a little research on online dating. I've never actually gone on a date with someone I've met in a chat room or dating site. I know people do it all the time. Is there any thoughts/experiences you'd like to share on the matter?
Same here ...Its been 7 years...we also talked online for a week or so. I am engaged. And yeah so you cane meet some crazies too. I met my fair share of weirdos. But my past two relationships were started from the internet and then I met them in person.
Not a dating site or chatroom.
We met in an online social network not too dissimilar to this one. Takes time to get to know each other. The timeline would follow something like:
Interaction in public discussions
Private Messages via network
Emails
IM
Photos
Phonecalls
Meet...
Permalink Reply by Tedd on November 20, 2008 at 4:26pm
I have done that twice. Both were when AOL was first released (When they charged per hour on your phone bill). Also, went to one party of "AOLers" in my area that got quite allot of press at the time.
I met my wife while DJing on an internet radio station. She was one of the listeners in the station chat room. after knowing her for 6 months or so I drove from Detroit Toronto to take her to dinner. After a year of weekends together we married. I've since retired, so we spend most of our time at our Toronto home but maintain the Michigan home as a get away. WE celebrated our second anniversary in August.
I met my girlfriend through myspace. She added me randomly. We met like 2 weeks later at the mall and we've been together ever since. Been loving her for 1 year and 5 months and going strong. Kudos to the internet.
Permalink Reply by Kat on November 21, 2008 at 3:21am
Yes, I have. Twice now, I've met someone online and ended up dating them in "real" life. Neither time worked out... but we've remained good friend in both cases.
I believe that when you meet someone online first, you tend to get to know them better than you do if you were to meet in person. You don't have to worry as much about physical appearances, or being on your best behavior. We are more apt to let our guard down online, and really let someone see what's on the inside. This is why my best friends are ones I've met online. They know me inside out, good and bad... and love me anyway. ;-)