Any advice for getting a girlfriend?

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Permalink Reply by Ian Walker on January 6, 2009 at 7:42pm

That;s very useful :)

Thanks Bren.

Take care.

Ian

Permalink Reply by Gary on November 25, 2008 at 10:10pm

you use your own judgment

Permalink Reply by SassySweetBren on November 25, 2008 at 10:32pm

Dang, I forgot the humor....thanks Young Werther....that is so important.

Permalink Reply by Jaxon Calder on November 25, 2008 at 11:13pm

Hey DellMan, Mateus and the rest of us out there.
I had the exact same problem, I think there is nothing worse than wishing you could talk to a beautiful girl let alone kiss one. I went through most of my life putting my head down when a hot girl walked passed, the thought of her seeing me looking at her, then I got fucking (mind my language) fed up with not being able to touch, what was designed for us.

Until I read this book wow, it was amazing. By the time I finished the book, I was rubbing up and all over hot girls I though wouldn't never look at me. But wait if that didn't make me lucky enough........ I discovered a program by the same person who wrote the book and did that take things to a new game (I cant describe what happened, bit to rude lol). Here is the website where you can get it from http://jaxon2008.puaroutine.hop.clickbank.net/ please let me know how it went. I want to hear what happend on your first trial ( ; I just wish I could let every one experience what I have now. Best of Luck mate.

Permalink Reply by Shan The Man on November 25, 2008 at 11:46pm

Are you being serious? You can't possibly figure women out from some lame book. You have to just experience them and have lots of practice..that is, if you don't naturally have the charm. Besides, there's probably a certain type of woman out there for you. Hot chicks aren't always the "right" chicks. I'd rather be with someone that's real than with someone that's uber attractive.

Dude, just be yourself and you'll meet the right type of woman for you. Don't go buying some stupid book. Be yourself and present yourself nicely. Just don't stink and say stupid stuff. Easy enough...right? You'll find her. . . Just don't look too hard.

Permalink Reply by Young Werther on November 26, 2008 at 2:04am

>You'll find her. . . Just don't look too hard.

Spot on. A friend of mine, an albino, near blind, never expected him to find a soulmate... Well, he's proved me wrong. He's now happily married to someone who adores him :)

Permalink Reply by Shan The Man on November 26, 2008 at 2:11am

That is so sweet. Exactly my point. People get so caught up in trying to frantically find Mr. / Mrs. Right but end up with Mr. / Mrs. Right Now. It's not brain surgery and there's no reason to rush it. It'll happen when it should. Until then, be patient and enjoy the life you're already living.

Permalink Reply by Annie K on December 1, 2008 at 6:56am

I can't believe you said, " ... fed up with not being able to touch, what was designed for us."

You got to be kidding me - DESIGNED FOR YOU??? I don't think so - there is your problem right there. You are saying that women are objects for your use. I would not see someone with that attitude ever capable of a real or fulfilling relationship.

Permalink Reply by Jaxon Calder on November 26, 2008 at 12:14am

True be your self, I have learnt that now. But some time's it's hard to be your self when you don't have confidence, all I am saying it helps to get a little help. You are also right about hot chick's don't always matter, what matters is how you relate to them and there personality's I didn't say this is just for models but it works for them if thats what you want. You sound like a smart person with lot's of experience, I have also had allot of experience the only difference is I am a guy and know what it is like from this side of the fence.

Permalink Reply by Shan The Man on November 26, 2008 at 2:13am

Hey now... I haven't had *that* much experience... heh. Anyway, anything that someone can do to make themselves feel better about themselves is awesome. I'm all for building up your self confidence. The idea of a book teaching you how to meet women and get along with them though just seems creepy. I understand that many people get nervous when dealing with the opposite sex but when the right type of person comes along, there should be an ease when dealing with them. If you're not comfortable with someone, then that person probably isn't the right person. I donno. Just seems so simple to me.

Permalink Reply by Young Werther on November 26, 2008 at 2:18am

Don't think experience has anything to do with feeling comfortable... Had a tummy full of butterflies last year... mid-life crisis I called it ! Infatuation? Maybe..

Limerence? Now, that's a great word ;)

Permalink Reply by Shan The Man on November 26, 2008 at 2:20am

I think that a lot of guys get nervous talking to women because they don't do it often. They're intimidated by the chance of rejection which makes them uber anxious. If they'd just relax, enjoy themselves and be funny or intellectual or whatever, things would roll a lot smoother. But you're right about the butterflies. When you're around that one person that totally makes you giddy, it's an awesome experience.

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